Real life obligations should always trump internet obligations. Maybe post a thread saying you need to leave for a bit and that it isn't inactivity. I'm sure people will understand.
ThisThe fact that you're even posting this thread on an online forum answers your question. Yes, go to New Hampshire, and while you're there enjoy the company of your real family. Go do outdoor activities, get some fresh air.
While the whole "OMG THIS CLAN IS A FAMILY" can be vomit-inducingly endearing to you guys, this isn't a real family. Your real family should be coming first by a mile, not the other people in this clan.
Also XXzz-Trauma-zzXX your right about what you said upp there about they Might want to try actually reading from time to time. HeHe!