Anyone?

[First Timer]

I really don't know where else to go with this question so I was thinking maybe someone here would,my GF recently wanted to break up with me,I felt miserable and lost,but I manage to convince her not to,but I still feel as miserable and lost as I was before,does anyone here know why?
Thanks in advance.

 

[Death_Blade]

You feel miserable because your girfriend wanted to break up with you. She was the one you turned to ( I suppose ), shared your life and so on, and she wanted to end all that which just broke part of the life you are used to living in........

 

[gen-ig]

I hate these situations- when someone wants to breakup/has to leave.

In the end I think its really that she wants something from you, but doesnt want to have to say it. Whether its more commitment, or just supporting her more you'll never know unless you ask.

 

[Death_Blade]

I hate these situations- when someone wants to breakup/has to leave.

In the end I think its really that she wants something from you, but doesn't want to have to say it. Whether its more commitment, or just supporting her more you'll never know unless you ask.

Hes rite, see what she wants and satisfy her needs if you can, be selfless

 

[Ledzo-INACTIVE]

You may think interiorly that , you're not good enough to be with her since she wanted to break up. To go further on , you should proove her , that you need her , and just tell her everything that you feel ; silence isn't better .
saying that just to go further on ....

 

[DeathStreak]

Seriously dude, not to take your situation lightly or anything but life is waaaaaaaaaaay too short. You're 19 and have your whole damn life ahead of you. As hard as it sounds to do dude, don't dwell on it. It'll only drive you nuts and things have a way of working out for the best in the end.

 

[Bloodcypher]

this happened to me once.....what i did was since i knew she tried to,yea ya feel crappy but ive had another fish in the sea.yea ya might feel crappy but itll go away lol.that happened 2 me twice.my friend i was gonna date had to move to AL,and my last gf i had to move away from her.life can suck but keep pushing man.

 

[Tricoro]

dude just go with the flow if she dont like you move on theres more girls in this world ( but it depend if she cute)

 

[First Timer]

Thanks guys,but I won't let go of her,not because I'm selfish but I really love her,she's the first one I ever cried for,I woke up today morning looking into the mirror and I was looking at a total stranger...

 

[Bloodcypher]

see this is what ay did which is what i did the first time.you put ur guard down and made her your everything.once its gone theres nothing left.ya gotta realize man theres always something more....and if shes done shes done.srry but its the cold hard truth

 

[SgtBeavis]

I always say "Everything happens for a reason" It's a tough thing to go through when something like that hops up out of bum f**k nowhere but like everyone else is saying bro go with what she wants one of my previous relationships we had been dating for a while but it was hard cause she had to move away to different places (yes places not going in to it) around the state and it was getting harder to see each other when I had been used to seeing her often and one day we had a chance to see each other again and I couldn't make it out to that far of a place and she dropped me like a rock called me back later that night after I got home from hanging with some friends to see if we could try to work it out and I was already over it and told her no sure after a few days I started to regret it but then got over it it was better for the both of us in the end I've talked to her since but it's been nearly 2 years do whats best for you and her man and before you know it you'll meet someone new it may seem hard for a week or two hell maybe even a month but sooner or later you will meet someone that will fill that hole and you will be happy again

 

[gen-ig]

I hate to point out the other side of this, but maybe things are just over. The feelings are gone- she wanted to break up with you, and as a result you do not feel secure with her, or really love her anymore. If this is a high school girlfriend that you have grown apart from with graduation or college, this is the normal time that many choose to break up. You can have a mutual breakup without destroying friendships, yet still allowing for a possible future years down the road.

 

[Death_Blade]

I hate to point out the other side of this, but maybe things are just over. The feelings are gone- she wanted to break up with you, and as a result you do not feel secure with her, or really love her anymore. If this is a high school girlfriend that you have grown apart from with graduation or college, this is the normal time that many choose to break up. You can have a mutual breakup without destroying friendships, yet still allowing for a possible future years down the road.

I wish pimp said that so I could quote him and say "Spoken like a true pimp" "

 

[First Timer]

Well,somehow,i manage to persuade her to stay with me,and the actual reason she wanted to break up with me was because of some superstitious stuff.
Anyways,i wanted to know who i could contact if i have legal issues with the clan website?