Thanks a mill everyone for the responses. May end up with the Palit Sonic Platinum / Gainward GLH . Both are almost identical just the fan on the the Gainward is a deeper red which im going for all around. Now i seen the ECS Black and that may be the one, only trouble is its a 3 slot cooler which would mean replacing my mobo when i SLI in the future ( you have prolly seen the thread on the Formula III ) . The Real nice thing about the ECS is the heatsink covers everything including the VRM's.
http://www.overclockersclub.com/reviews/ecs_gtx460_black/2.htm
Time for the 260 to go even though it still does very good with everything i play. Most sites come up with different OC's on different cards obviously, as long as it cools well and clocks close to 900, im good. Oh yeah, it cant be ugly.
Another thing, once actual reviews of the FTW are out we will know how well it will clock and cool. My case flow is just beautiful but am considering an HAF X as well when i go SLI.
Something strange i would also like to mention, i had hooked up my 8800 GTS in my rig for folding and it actually slows the 260 down. I've done everything from swapping slots to using different drivers and adjusting any setting i could. Pulled the 8800 out and all is well. To give you an idea, in TF2 i keep a constant sync of 60fps without the 8800 installed. With it, i was seeing drops to 45fps. MW2 would also drop my frames from 100+/- to as low as 20. Whats going on there ? Never encountered this before.
Drop me some hints guys. BRB