Omg fallout 3/ new vegas mod help

[Howl Pendragon]

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Does anyone know really well how to properly install and use mods in Fallout 3 and Fallout New Vegas?

I'm asking because of a few reasons
- no mod tutorials help (it always works for them)
- my game crashes most of the time when I use mods
- I just need help

If anyone can walk me through the full process of installing a mod, please contact me on my steam account or YouTube (preferably have skype)

Steam - halex1316
Steam 2 - halex131613
YouTube - NewGameWalkthroughs
Skype - howlopendragon