Yes, getting help is always a great way to go. Also don't freak out if someone doesn't always understand what your saying the first time, try rephrasing your explanation, slow it down a bit. Take it step by step, and remember, patience is the key. Some people find joining difficult, others find it easy, just keep trying to help him understand and be sure to ask for help if you need it, the Recruiting Office in ventrilo is a good place to find some people willing to help.