Turn off AA, crash problems fix themselves like someone above posted.
Already did that. Someone posted that in another Skyrim thread (or this one?), and discussed it with him. Turned AA off, Verify Integrity 5x so far, done everything short of deleting the entire game and reinstalling (and losing my process so far of +40 hrs)















. Its 25k gold though (but it puts you into the most aesthetically pleasing city, the center for many storyline quests [trying to avoid spoilers], and the house you buy isn't a house at all... its a manor
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