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I'm sorry to see you go Benuc. I don't believe I've seen the drama in this case but I know it happens. It's best to just stay out of it and I agree with Maserati. This community is about gaming and having fun together, not bragging and belittling each other. We shouldn't be negative at all, really. But it happens, as with all groups of people.
It happens in the military, at work, in small groups, even. I don't know about the other people here that are out of high school, but I know that I see the same things everywhere. People always form groups and people always try to be better than the next group. I just avoid it by being nice as I can and talk to those that are nice back.
So in summary, high school doesn't end at a high school, the people just get older.
I wish you good luck and hope to see you around Benuc.
It happens in the military, at work, in small groups, even. I don't know about the other people here that are out of high school, but I know that I see the same things everywhere. People always form groups and people always try to be better than the next group. I just avoid it by being nice as I can and talk to those that are nice back.
So in summary, high school doesn't end at a high school, the people just get older.
I wish you good luck and hope to see you around Benuc.
If someone finds themselves in a position where they're being harassed or bullied, they shouldn't hesitate to be vocal about it. If one person's toxic actions go unchecked, it can spread like wildfire, and we don't want that.
I'd also encourage people who witness this kind of behavior to speak up as well. Like it or not, if you just try to be a bystander, you're contributing to the problem. You don't always know what personal issues the person on the other end could be going through.
I'd also encourage people who witness this kind of behavior to speak up as well. Like it or not, if you just try to be a bystander, you're contributing to the problem. You don't always know what personal issues the person on the other end could be going through.
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Please do. There's no reason for any of this to happen.
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I am sad to see you go, Benuc... and angry that you were made to leave over churlish backbiting.
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I really didn't want to have to say anything in this thread but I'm afraid I'm going to have to...
I greatly appreciate the outpouring of love and kindness being shown to benuc but this is most definitely not the reason he left.
Out of respect for him, I didn't want to say the real reason but he has twisted this to make himself the victim, which is quite dishonest and really bothers me.
To make this type of farewell post designed to stir more drama is very unbecoming and I'm honestly disappointed. I allowed the post initially so that people could say their goodbyes and for benuc to take this approach takes advantage of my kindness and leniency.
Anyone who has a problem with this is free to speak with me directly.
benuc, I wish you the best in future endeavors.
P.S. My comments are not directed to Sanctified and I am not angry.
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Darn, now I'm curious.
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In my experience, it is never worth the cost of finding out. I just say 'good bye'.
Have a good one, benuc
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awwwwwwwww benook pls don't leave me
Jesus, maybe i'm glad I've never really gotten into the whole TS thing. I've never seen drama in our clan.
For those of you who perpetuate that crap, cut it out. This clan is way way above petty drama.
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Yeah, I have signed into TS a few times, and didn't see the draw. I only go there if I need to find someone and now that I am an 'O' that is not very often. High School was 22 years ago for me and I didn't miss it the day after I walked out the door.
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Joining TS is not a requirement to be in eGO but I also don't want anyone to feel they are not welcome. If you feel unwelcome in TS or hear things there that trouble you, please let me know.
There's been more drama in this thread than there typically is on TS. The "problem", such as it is, has been blown way out of proportion. With all respect to benuc, I'm with IP, I'm not impressed with the attempt to play the victim.
Good fortune benuc.
Truly my head is spinning by all this torment going on in our Division. But hey lets GET BACK ON TRACK!!!! Its suppose to be a troll group like Team Metal Slave giving us problems not ourselves. Either way I'm sad to see you go Benuc and I wish you the best.
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I'm really sorry to hear this, Benuc. I remember talking to you and trying to figure things out.
This sort of thing is not cool or mature in the least. I hope you can find it in you to return to eGO someday.
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This sort of thing is not cool or mature in the least. I hope you can find it in you to return to eGO someday.
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