Ok so based on that link, I did have to make a few changes; DirectX is set to 10 (mainly to conserve video memory), MSAA is turned off automatically, it says to change Vsync to Adaptive in Nvidia CP, so im gonna try that, had to reduce Texture quality to Normal, same with Shader quality and Shadow quality, Soft Shadows didnt effect the memory, so i maxed that to sharp, & Tesselation was auto turned off.
Overall, I have about half the video memory available to use. Based on what I see, I may change a setting or 2, but if anything, I will wait to upgrade my video card for sure.