Announcement An abrupt absence

Pharadox

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Hey everyone, it's Phara.
Out of nowhere as usual.

I just wanted to say why I have been absent for so long, and if the absence will continue.

As many of you may know, my father passed away, but it didn't affect me, because I knew what was happening to him. I knew he was going to pass, so I accepted it. I spent time with him, and made final memories.
After my fathers passing, my household dwindled down to me and my mother.
My mother has been diagnosed with something called a "Deep Vein Thrombosis". This basically means that there is a thick blood clot in her leg, which isn't good news. A piece of that blood clot has broken off and flew through a blood vessel into her left lung and has created a "Pulmonary Embolism". This mens a blood clot has gotten stuck in her lung, and has essentially killed part of her lung. You sort of need your lungs to breath, so that isn't very good for her. She is taking multiple medicines to combat these clots, which has made her quite weak. I have been with her for every step, because I never know what could happen next. I don't know when I will return, but the chances are slim right now.

That's the bad news,
but I have some good news about my life too.


My birthday was March 11th, and I learned how to roller skate and ice skate with my friends, which was a great experience.

I have been invited to go to JCLC, a bootcamp for high school JROTC members. I am one of three freshmen on a team of ten from my school, so wish me luck.

I landed my first promotion a couple weeks ago, and I'll have a good paying job over the summer to make a bit of money and experience.

I took a tour a Embry Riddle, an University near my house. The chances of me getting a scholarship are pleasing, so I'm gonna keep up on my work and make my family proud.



I want to take a moment to thank all of you in eGO for keeping this community great and healthy, and for dealing with my eccentric and sometimes unacceptable behavior.
If, or when I do come back, I feel I will be much more humble and extraordinary as an eGO member.


That's about the last couple months summed up for you all to read, so uh, live everyday thankful for what you have.


:)
 
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Wow didn't know this had happened to you! That really sucks, but welcome back!!!
 
Sorry for your loss, I'll be praying for you and your mother. Stick with her every step of the way no matter what, the last thing you want to do is to step away and make her feel abnormal or different. I'm sure she will recover, it's just a matter of time. These things happening to you at 16 years old is just terrifying, and I don't know if I would be as strong as you have been if it were to happen to me. We will always be here with open arms for your return, or even in a time of need. If there is anything I or the community can do then please let us know and we will be more than grateful to help.
 
I'm so deeply sorry for your loss, also the other significant tole that your mother is going through and you as well. I hope that you're able to cope with this and prosper through. As well as your mothers health, I wish you both the best and will be sending you both my prayers. If there's that I or the community may do for you, please let us know. We'll all be here for you if you every need anything, just reach out for the helping hand.
 
im deeply saddened to hear about what youre going though man and my prayers and thoughts will certainly be sent your way. youre a good kid and ive always felt that, but i didnt know how strong you are, you are stronger than me my friend and i have a feeling you get that from your mom. stay by her side through this troubling time and im sure you both will come out even stronger than you were best of luck man
 
Sorry to hear that about your family. Hope your mother gets better bro.
 
best wishes, man. one day we'll get the gang back together. i promise.
 
Pharadox, I've met you only once but in the time I spent with you I can tell you're a kind, courageous person. Only someone with a true heart could be struck in the face with such obstacles and manage to find the happiness and the good through the hard times. Good luck in everything and I hope life works out for you. I lost my father to cancer recently, and my only regret was not spending as much time with him. My advice to you is this. Make the most out of everyday with your family. Tell your mother how much she means to you and that together as a family you'll make it out of the tough times. You're a very brave, kind-hearted, inspiring, amazing, and most of all, a courageous human being. My heart and my prayers go out to you and your family. If you need anything, feel free to steam message me or PM me. I am here for you just like the entire community is and we all care about you deeply. Good Luck in everything man.

Make the most out of everyday. The world can be tough, but where there is a smile there is happiness. Make as many smiles as possible. You do you and you're a great person for being such a kind-hearted person.

Kind Regards,
Tarun "Tai Lopez" Kris Krishnan
 
Sorry to hear about your loss and hope your mother health gets better.

Hey it was good playing comp with you today
 

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