I want to show you what Quaffer said when signing up with eGO and The Raiders. I felt it really gets the right message across for all eGO members and is worth repeating for you to see.
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B. Summarize eGO's rules, in your own words.
?Have fun. Be polite and mature. Don't complain. Play like your playing with your kid/mother watching over your shoulder."
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Thanks Quaffer!
what if we have actual criticism about something? lol there is such a thing as constructive criticism

for example, I tend to not agree with the "respect others" rule. For the sole reason that respect should be earned, not given. The rule, imo, should be more along the lines (as far as I can tell is) "treat fellow players kindly" cause that's fine imo since that's what the rule basically means. But to ask me to give someone respect when they haven't earned it? I find that a bit much to ask.
The dictionary says this for the meaning of respect
"esteem for or a sense of the worth or excellence of a person, a personal quality or ability, or something considered as a manifestation of a personal quality or ability"
I dunno how the server can ask for people to respect someone when they don't know them

I can understand respecting the admin's powers cause you do know their abilities to ban/kick you and thus respect the rules because of the consequences... but to respect the person themselves... I dunno, I say people should earn it. Then again, I guess that's a fault of our generation.. our generation has far too much instant gratification so very few understand the meaning of earning something.
With that said, I agree, it's nice to have a server were people act friendly, but that's my only gripe with the rules. All others are perfectly fine imo. Not swearing really is easy to do so I kinda laugh when I see some who make a really huge deal about it. They can always swear in person by themselves where they are playing the game rather than in the game lol.