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=(eGO)=? is a community, and being a community created by and for people gender issues are bound to arise. Our goal is to prevent such issues from occurring, or in the advent that they do occur to mediate them to a satisfactory conclusion for the afflicted party. An environment where both genders can coexist without friction is essential for any organization to grow and thrive.
=(eGO)=? considers itself honored and privileged to be the home of many female members. We wish to see their numbers increase, therefore we will spare nothing to ensure that they will be treated properly, with equality and due respect at all times and everywhere. The aim of this module is to educate our members on what constitutes sexual harassment, how to spot and prevent sexual harassment form occurring, and what to do in case it does happen. While the focus in this module is on women, since they are a minority in online gaming, this applies equally to men as well.
There is a broad spectrum of behaviors that can qualify as sexual harassment. Often the behavior is intended to harass and the person doing it is well aware of that. But, it is also possible that the individual which engages in such behaviors does not mean it to be as such and is not aware the behavior is harassment.
There are some good indicators that one can look for in such instances to make a determination as to whether it is occurring or not. In most instances it will be clear whether sexual harassment is taking place or not.
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How do you recognize harassment?
There many examples and it is not possible to list all of them, but two of the easiest ways to recognize sexual harassment in a gaming environment are:
Are you doing it just because she is a girl? If the answer is yes, stop.
Would you say that to your sister? If the answer is no, don?t say it.
These examples may appear funny and gross, but that goes to show how stupid sexual harassment is. We are here to game and make friends, not date. Most of the women here are married or have boyfriends. The ones that do not are not here to get a boyfriend, they are here to simply play the games. Please, lets show our maturity and keep it that way. We are here to play games and make friends, not date. If you hear your friends or other guys do anything like this, please tell them to stop. No need to be shy or weird around our female players, or avoid them, just talk to them like we are your super fun gaming friends. It is as simple as that. Treat them with equality and respect.
To all =(eGO)=? female players:
Every man here has women in their lives that they would not allow to be treated like this and will not stand for you to be treated like this either. Any of the men will listen and take action. If for any reason, regardless what that reason is, you don?t feel comfortable telling one of the men about it, there are women in Leadership that you can talk to: PurpleNurple, NaaD, Paraplegic_Ballerina, k0nk0n, djsatanswife, alaskagirl. We can keep your name out of it if you?d prefer, but it is very important that we know about it.
The =(eG)=? mentioned earlier approached many of the girls and none of them knew about what he said to the others, so he was allowed to continue harassing one after another. Even one of our female Leaders was harassed and she did not say anything. She thought it was an isolated incident and told him to leave her alone, but he just moved on to the next girl. Speak out, everyone is against this and will take action against it. We need to make sure others know so this does not happen again.
Sexual Harassment
=(eGO)=? is a community, and being a community created by and for people gender issues are bound to arise. Our goal is to prevent such issues from occurring, or in the advent that they do occur to mediate them to a satisfactory conclusion for the afflicted party. An environment where both genders can coexist without friction is essential for any organization to grow and thrive.
Introduction
=(eGO)=? considers itself honored and privileged to be the home of many female members. We wish to see their numbers increase, therefore we will spare nothing to ensure that they will be treated properly, with equality and due respect at all times and everywhere. The aim of this module is to educate our members on what constitutes sexual harassment, how to spot and prevent sexual harassment form occurring, and what to do in case it does happen. While the focus in this module is on women, since they are a minority in online gaming, this applies equally to men as well.
What is sexual harassment?
There is a broad spectrum of behaviors that can qualify as sexual harassment. Often the behavior is intended to harass and the person doing it is well aware of that. But, it is also possible that the individual which engages in such behaviors does not mean it to be as such and is not aware the behavior is harassment.
There are some good indicators that one can look for in such instances to make a determination as to whether it is occurring or not. In most instances it will be clear whether sexual harassment is taking place or not.
- Sexual harassment is unwelcome attention of a sexual nature and is a form of illegal and social harassment. It includes a range of behavior from seemingly mild transgressions and annoyances to actual sexual abuse or sexual assault.
- Sexual harassment is considered a form of illegal discrimination in many countries, and is a form of abuse (sexual and psychological) and bullying.
- The victim does not have to be the person harassed but could be anyone affected by the offensive conduct.
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How do you recognize harassment?
There many examples and it is not possible to list all of them, but two of the easiest ways to recognize sexual harassment in a gaming environment are:
Are you doing it just because she is a girl? If the answer is yes, stop.
- Do you follow her from server to server just because she is a girl?
- Do you follow her from room to room in vent just because she is a girl?
- Do you constantly ask her questions or talk only to her because she is a girl?
Would you say that to your sister? If the answer is no, don?t say it.
- Would you call your sister, babe or honey?
- Would you tell your sister she has a sexy voice?
- Would you send virtual roses or kisses to your sister over steam?
These examples may appear funny and gross, but that goes to show how stupid sexual harassment is. We are here to game and make friends, not date. Most of the women here are married or have boyfriends. The ones that do not are not here to get a boyfriend, they are here to simply play the games. Please, lets show our maturity and keep it that way. We are here to play games and make friends, not date. If you hear your friends or other guys do anything like this, please tell them to stop. No need to be shy or weird around our female players, or avoid them, just talk to them like we are your super fun gaming friends. It is as simple as that. Treat them with equality and respect.
To all =(eGO)=? female players:
Every man here has women in their lives that they would not allow to be treated like this and will not stand for you to be treated like this either. Any of the men will listen and take action. If for any reason, regardless what that reason is, you don?t feel comfortable telling one of the men about it, there are women in Leadership that you can talk to: PurpleNurple, NaaD, Paraplegic_Ballerina, k0nk0n, djsatanswife, alaskagirl. We can keep your name out of it if you?d prefer, but it is very important that we know about it.
The =(eG)=? mentioned earlier approached many of the girls and none of them knew about what he said to the others, so he was allowed to continue harassing one after another. Even one of our female Leaders was harassed and she did not say anything. She thought it was an isolated incident and told him to leave her alone, but he just moved on to the next girl. Speak out, everyone is against this and will take action against it. We need to make sure others know so this does not happen again.
Bottom line, if you are uncomfortable with something a guy says to you, don?t just deal with it, tell someone.
I will repeat that again. There is ZERO tolerance for Sexual Harassment. Those that are shown to engage in the harassment of others will be removed forthwith, without consideration or hesitation. There is ZERO tolerance for Sexual Harassment.
There is ZERO tolerance for Sexual Harassment.
I will repeat that again. There is ZERO tolerance for Sexual Harassment. Those that are shown to engage in the harassment of others will be removed forthwith, without consideration or hesitation. There is ZERO tolerance for Sexual Harassment.
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Also, if you move it, i would suggest deleting all these posts 