School and eGO

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i know it's long, and many people despise reading, but please bare with me and spend five to ten minutes reading this, thank you.

well, i don't want to butt in on other people's problems, but this has just caught onto my attention. I haven't seen any topics about this, so I guess I will post it here.

it has come to my attention, that many eGO members go to school. some are elementary, high school, and also college, myself included. now, what I'm bringing up is that I know we all love to play games and with other eGO members yes? but some of the people I have played with some times cut school and stay home or go to internet cafes to play. now this is where I would like to address my concern.

I understand that playing games is fun, and also contributing to the eGO community is important. but please understand, your education is also very important. it can decide what you do in the future. do not disregard it as an annoyance, it may be annoying now, but as you progress further into your life, you will see why school is important. it is not some place your parents send you to torture you, its for you to learn.

some things i will admit is irrelevant, but the most important thing about it is that you gain experience. some stuff the teachers don't teach you, you will learn from your friends at school. and it is also vice-versa, somethings you just can't learn from your friends, but from your teachers.

your parents also put a lot of trust into you, don't break it just because you want to unlock weapons in tf2, shoot cts in css, or gun down zombies in left 4 dead. games will be there when you come home, they will always be waiting for you. your education and life experience are for you. you decide rather you want to learn or not.

in my book, family comes first, education second, and the eGO community and games come third. you might hate me for saying that, but there are more things that i will put ahead first then clan and games.

please, community members, this is coming from me and I'm sure from others, don't throw away your education just because you want to spend more hours online gunning down people. this only hurts you, and the people around you. I speak from experience and trust me, this road, where you cut classes to play games or hang out with friends, only leads you downhill. I have been there, done it, and almost didn't come out. I was able to get back on track before it got worst, and now I'm going to college. I payed nothing for it, and even getting money from it.

a few hours in school won't kill you, and it will help you in the long run. it's true that some dropouts make it in the world. the ones i know, some are getting through life, most, not so much.

to close off, in high school and now, I talked to people my own age and also younger people about dropping out. some just think dropping out saves them time and think its ok to do it and think they will make it. some will, many won't. when I talk to them, every single one has come up with this counter about dropping out, "well look at Bill Gate's he dropped out of school and look at him. he owns Microsoft." yes, he was a dropout, and yes he owns multimillion, if not billion dollar company. I always end the conversation with this, and I mean always. "remember our talk about Bill Gates? yes he dropped out, and he made it in the world. there is one big difference between you and him. He dropped out of Harvard, you didn't."

don't cut your classes eGO members. a few extra hours of gaming is not worth it. finish the hours, then come home or to the internet cafe to play more. please, education first, eGO and games second. I'm not trying to start a war, but i value education higher then gaming, if that makes me lose my eGO status and look like a bad guy, so be it, i rather lose it then watch members go down the same path I did.

thanks for reading, and hope my words have gotten through to the community, both eGO members, and non members. to me you are all just as important. any questions or advice, just pm me, ask for my aim screen name, email address, or xfire(I don't use it often, but I can try). I would gladly help with anyone's problems.

again thank you for taking the time to read, and hope you all agree. comments or anything anyone wants to add, you are welcomed too.

ps: if there is a topic about this, I'm sorry i missed it, if you want to close the topic, you can also do so.
 
I can't endorse this post enough. Thanks FmF.

I dropped out of college last year for a lot of reasons (money, moving, death, immigration laws, depression), but Teamfortress 2 did not help things along either.

If you are having any problems at school by the way, remember help is available. Teachers can be talked to after class, Counselors are/should be available to you (that goes double for college students), and of course keep your friends and family appraised of any issues. It doesnt do any good in the long run to bury yourself into a game: once the server crashes you're right back where you started :)

As for dropping out of High School, you are severely limiting your options in life, especially in today's economy: There is literally a greater than 1000:1 ratio between Applicants and Jobs, and Employers will be considering dropouts last. If you have already dropped out, focus on going back, or getting a GED. As for college, again, if you've checked out monster.com recently you will know that a degree will open tens of thousands of additional opportunities for you in direct contrast to someone with just a Diploma.

Also worth mentioning, part of the Stimulus Plan passed on Tuesday:

We must address is the urgent need to expand the promise of education in America.

In a global economy where the most valuable skill you can sell is your knowledge, a good education is no longer just a pathway to opportunity - it is a pre-requisite.

Right now, three-quarters of the fastest-growing occupations require more than a high school diploma. And yet, just over half of our citizens have that level of education. We have one of the highest high school dropout rates of any industrialized nation. And half of the students who begin college never finish.

This is a prescription for economic decline, because we know the countries that out-teach us today will out-compete us tomorrow. That is why it will be the goal of this administration to ensure that every child has access to a complete and competitive education - from the day they are born to the day they begin a career.

It is our responsibility as lawmakers and educators to make this system work. But it is the responsibility of every citizen to participate in it. And so tonight, I ask every American to commit to at least one year or more of higher education or career training. This can be community college or a four-year school; vocational training or an apprenticeship. But whatever the training may be, every American will need to get more than a high school diploma. And dropping out of high school is no longer an option. It's not just quitting on yourself, it's quitting on your country - and this country needs and values the talents of every American. That is why we will provide the support necessary for you to complete college and meet a new goal: by 2020, America will once again have the highest proportion of college graduates in the world.

I know that the price of tuition is higher than ever, which is why if you are willing to volunteer in your neighborhood or give back to your community or serve your country, we will make sure that you can afford a higher education.
The time is now folks, and quite frankly 5 years from now High School dropouts are going to have a harder time than ever. Which is why it is so important now to further your education, and stay ahead of the curve. I know you're sick of hearing it but it can't be stressed enough.
 
couldn't agree more guys, but there already is a thread on this.. But anyway, people should understand that they should find a balance between school, life, and eGO, possibly in the order school>life>eGO. And although people will say i shouldn't put eGO last, if they manage their time correctly, they'll find they can actually dedicate more hours to eGO without detrimental effects on their school work or other life!
 
"Life always comes first", thats the motto we've always used. No one in eGO will ever look down upon someone for wanting to better themselves in the real world. As a matter of fact, as long as you leave on good terms along with letting us know you will be going afk (eG's and eGO's) your admin will be waiting on you when you get back.

The fire will always be kept hot, and we will welcome you back with open arms when you return.
 
Great sound advice. Get your priorties straight and the rest will fall into place is my 2 cents. Btw Fatty I love ur avatar. Big Trouble in Little China is one of my favorite movies!
 
Dont worry about me, Im gonna be in school for a very very long time but very nice post.

I gotta go to school now bye :]
 
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No problem with skipping when you're a straight A AP and Honors student and have 14 more days to miss at the end of the year imo. :D
 
I cant get to eGO or gaming at my school so I am fine and dandy, its revision I find hard. Not because of games, but because I can't stare at paper for a time without my mind wandering. I am trying different techniques (Exams in 7 weeks :X) but yeah, Family > School > Friends > eGO
(Many of my friends are IN eGO lol :P)

~M
 
Here's my 2 cents. I dropped out of high school, then went back, and dropped out again. I have 2 types of ged's. It was a big mistake in my life and something I wish I could go back and change. I didn't attempt to go to college till about 10 years out of high school, and it was really hard for me to get back into the school things, so I never finished. Now, things have worked out for me now, but it took alot of hard work (more than it should have i think) to get to where I'm at now.

FINISH SCHOOL!!!!!

There will be plenty of time to have fun/play games/chase guys/girls later. Wouldn't it be more fun when you are settled in and living comfortably then living pay check to pay check?


DON'T BE A TOOL, STAY IN SCHOOL.


(and no, the reason why I suck at typing is not from dropping out of school :P)
 
fatty i agree with you 100% man this is true for me its like friends + family >edu > eGO
 
To be honest I find it hard to believe that people are able to gain acsess to proper games like TF2 when at school. At my school, every computer is under close observation. Installing new programs is disabled and 99% of sites with games on are filtered by both the government and the school admisistrators. Why, even this website is blocked because of the forums. Even then I still see people sneaking onto flash racing games during an ICT lesson. It's kinda sad really, especially when its one of their GCSE topics (GCSE's are the major exams in secondary/high schools in the UK if you didn't know).
 
I agree 100%. While I'm only in Middle school, I still strive to be the best. It seemed like my efforts weren't paying off and I thought about going back to homeschool. However, I finally found a "groove" and have succeeded in getting straight A's. 3 of them are 100 averages.
As if that weren't enough, I just got an acceptance letter from the IB coordinator for the programme in my district. I can't believe everything that has happened to me in these past few weeks. I have finally found a balance between friends, life, school, and of course, eGO. And while I don't have enough time as I would like to spend with eGO I still wouldn't have it any other way.
 
If it is any help at all, and for those who know me well, i shun people who skip school to play games. ive told you when you do that i dont like the fact that you do. Life is something that fly''s by you fast.. hell i wish i was 15 again and in school!!

When your young you dont have bills to pay, car notes, Jobs that seem so annoying that you want to murder your boss because he does less work than you in a month than you do in a day.. thats life and when you get older if you wasted that life of yours sitting on your ass playing video games for a few laughs youl look back and think " I miss being young..". Focus on YOU, Drunken said it clearly. " if you say your going to be gone on good terms you wont have to worry your G and O will still be here"

Getting Admin isnt something to fail a grade, miss a date, break your Grandmothers heart because you decided to brush off the rendezvous with em. Your actions affect your future self REGARDLESS of what you think.

Im ending this with a warning.. be very scared of it because its happening alot

If you sit all day and play WoW you will fail highschool ( i say this because my best friend did it)
If you say "later" when your friends wanna go hang out at the mall, your friendship thins
If you say " not tonight" when a girl/guy wants to go to a movie/dinner youl find yourself alone
If you dont care about yourself... no one else will

~Zerg~
 
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Friends > Family > School > everything else(including eGO)

I know my friends have my back. My family doesn't.
 
I am with Fatty on this 110% even though no one knows me and probably doesn't care what is said lol. I will tell you I hated school I barely graduated and then decided it was time for college but I got stupid and decided to drink, party and play games. Now I cannot go to school because a year ago March 31st my daughter was born and everything changed. I work full time and hardly find time for my family so please go to school spend time with family then play your games last! I know it sounds horrible, but when you get where I am it will hit you. On a positive note I am now going into the Air Force, so please go to school get your diploma and go to college or serve our country.

Thank You!

PS I know nobody prolly cares what I have to say because noone knows who I am but its cool just thought a good story might help the cause!
 
To be honest I find it hard to believe that people are able to gain acsess to proper games like TF2 when at school. At my school, every computer is under close observation. Installing new programs is disabled and 99% of sites with games on are filtered by both the government and the school admisistrators. Why, even this website is blocked because of the forums. Even then I still see people sneaking onto flash racing games during an ICT lesson. It's kinda sad really, especially when its one of their GCSE topics (GCSE's are the major exams in secondary/high schools in the UK if you didn't know).

Nearly everything is banned in my school too.
But we are only doing KS3 ICT, I've took it for GCSE options though but yeah, nearly everything is banned.

My school have this kind of spy program where they can access your computer from their computer. So, I can rarely ever go on anything without being under the risk of being caught :P

I see gaming as a kind of comfort. I used to socialize all the time but it's got to the point where I their is nothing to do and nobody to meet. Most of my closest friends live on the other side of the town ?_?
 

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