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[Spartan117]

Ok. There is this girl who I really like.. But the problem is she is older than me. But we have been hanging out a lot and we are going on Vacation to Asia together and no one else. Should I ask her out there?

 

[Sharpe]

How much older? More than 3 is my limit. And that's pushing it. But, If you really like/Love Her, Do it.

It's up to you. What do you think is best?

 

[Danzyyg]

I wouldn't do it there. If she doesn't feel the same way, things will get awkward. If she does like you, something will happen soon. More than likely during the vacation.

 

[DVS_Mind]

Agreed. Subtle hints and actions during the vacation and go for the official "ask out" after the trip.

You'll also come to realize as the years go by that age is, for the most part, just a number. So, I wouldn't let that weigh too heavily in your consideration.


Good luck!

 

[Redspring]

If you're going on vacation with just her, doesn't that mean there's already something going on? But I would wait a few days and make sure that she likes you, or at least think that you're sure Because if she doesn't like you, things could get awkward and you would be stuck with her in Asia. And, like DanZug said, if she likes you, something will most likely happen during the vacation.

And how much older is she?

 

[Daria]

Becareful in thinking that shes is coming on to you when she really wants you just as a friend. It can ruin a relationship very quickly.

 

[Mr Grip]

Age shouldn't be too big of a problem, I've dated older than me in the past. Also you need to be careful when approaching the dating aspect of the situation, one wrong move and that friendship is down the drain. I've ruined more than one relationship due to misreading signals and women are masters of mixed signals.

So be mindful of your feelings young one, women are masters of the darkside.

My favorite rejection line. "I really like you and would want to see where things go, but I don't think you want what I want"

They were right...

 

[JMango]

Gatta love eGO. Best gaming clan AND relationship advice. Doesn't get any better then that.

 

[Spartan117]

she is 4 years older than me

 

[Resurrection]

ummm in not qualified to give any kind of relationship advice ....

 

[NCA]

How old are you?

we have been hanging out a lot and we are going on Vacation to Asia together and no one else

This merits a better explanation.

 

[mad pistol]

All I have to say is don't force yourself on her. If the time is right, you'll know it (and she will too.)

However, if she's 4 years older than you, and you're under 20, you need to be REALLY cautious. She may not share your feelings unfortunately. Like DVS said, subtle hints is the key, but wait until after the trip to ask her out. The ONLY exception to this would be if she's dropping so many hints that it's glaringly obvious.

Just be careful bud. You don't want to ruin anything between you and her.

 

[Sabion]

Yea...I would have to agree with everyone else...If you ask her out there and she says no, things would obviously get awkward for the rest of the trip. If she does like you, like everyone else said, something will happen on the trip. As for the age part, four years is nothing to be worried about...Its within the average age gap in relationships I believe...

 

[OrangeShot]

Where in asia do you guys plan to go haha?.

 

[Winston]

Do it old school style. Hit her in the head with a club and drag her to your cave. Older women love that stuff.

 

[Cicatriz]

Becareful in thinking that shes is coming on to you when she really wants you just as a friend. It can ruin a relationship very quickly.

^This^

Also like NCA said. Your age matters. In highschool I wouldn't go over a year difference. In college I wouldn't go more than a 2-3 year difference. Now that I'm 23 my limit is 4 years.

Don't push anything on the vacation. I think most of us have been there, it's ruined vacations. If things happen, let them happen. But don't ruin a vacation over it, especially one that is as far off as Asia.

Enjoy your trip

 

[Ballzac]

try not to poop your pants

 

[Ice hearted killer]

wait till after to ask her or your life will be a living hell while your with her, that is not an over statement. if you both feel the same something will happen when your out there that is almost guaranteed

 

[DragonD]

She's 4 years old, but as stated, it really depends on the ages involved.

Really though, why are you two going to Asia together, just you two, if there is NOT something already there?? Most women just don't go for stuff like that.

Unless...your like a special ed kid and she's a camp counselor. If that's the case, them..hmm...I'd say don't ask her out.

 

[Daria]

The best advice I can give you is go with what you feel if the moment feels right ask, because you NEVER want to ever regret not doing something.
Cant go through life thinking what if?......