I understand the lopsided teams we sometimes get, but many times that is due to the other team's players just quitting and becoming campers.
I too, joined a community to play with the same people and especially to have known friends on the same side.
Granted this may have gotten out of hand tonight, but I have not seen a blatant instance of this, where EGO members are concerned, in the recent past that I have been on the server.
Dropping out and back into a queue would seem to me like we are changing the format from fun first, but at the same time, I do not have all that much fun when it is a blowout regardless of which side I am on.
I will, as an EGO member, try to keep an eye out for such instances and try to do what is appropriate at the time.