respect, please read!

[bluefalcon]

i have seen an influx of e members who will argue or talk rude to e's eg's and ego's (mostly in other divisions, but some in ours). i do not like this! if you have an issue with someone, then pull that individual in a private vent room or private chat. DO NOT do it in front of anyone else! you should do this with everyone. please show proper respect to all e, eG, and eGO members. this goes for the person being confronted as well. i will start taking appropriate action if i continue to see this trend. this is my warning in writing to all.

 

[a pet rock]

He's right. Do not ever publicly confront a member of our clan. If you have a problem with someone, you talk to them privately. If you're still upset about something you bring it to the next rank up. e>eG>eGO>Advisor>DL>Council.

When you're bickering amongst yourselves and don't even treat people within your own clan with respect, none of the pubs will expect it. You represent eGO, and if you don't have the maturity or responsibility to do it right, you can expect to lose your tags.

 

[Leader Bean]

Ladies and gentlemen, learning how to properly and professionally address other people in with personal issues or conflict will work wonders for your professional future lives and avoid so many headaches and much stress.

Discretion and confidentiality work wonders and people often come to respect you for knowing/performing this way in interactions with people. I've seen people who absolutely hate each other work out their issues in private and never have another conflict, ever. Do it properly, be discrete and confidential.

 

[PIMP DADDY SMURF]

Thank you for this thread Blue, I have had this happen to me a few times from some members as well a few pubs. :thumbup:

 

[Bloodcypher]

thnx man ill do me best to pick the non poisinous berrys(metaphoricly speaking)

 

[SCSwat]

If you're still upset about something you bring it to the next rank up. e>eG>eGO>Advisor>DL>Council.

Let me clarify on this. NO INS division member will go directly to a council member, period. That is what the Division leadership chain of command is there for and WILL NOT be jumped/bypassed etc. If you have a problem with someone who is leadership... talk to that person first and as adults you can work it out or move your problem up the chain APPROPRIATELY!

If what you have to say goes beyond normally acceptable discussion in open chat,
you need to move it to a private channel. If you are going to argue with someone
I recommend you take it OUTSIDE of any eGO asset... take it somewhere else but
by all means meet some kind of agreement and get over it. Unsolved personality
differences will erode the foundation of our team.

I will personally take issue with anyone found undermining the team
by openly "smack talking" another member. Freedom of speech is one
thing... DEFAMATION, however, is a crime.

 

[Ghost91]

I've seen this happen alot with the e's and the ones I've seen is in our division. I think there needs to be something like a quiz or something for new recuits to make sure they read the rules and everything that needs to be read, and if they fail the quiz(which shouldn't be to hard) then they would have to try again another day or something like that. But thats Just my opinion.

 

[Ice hearted killer]

well said guys, just to let you all know im not going to be hearing any of this, if i see it in server you will know about it.

 

[Un4Gvn]

Definitely always keep your eyes out on the server, and hopefully any eg's or O's should report problems like this in the correct channel.
What I'm more concerned about is a recent uprising in members jumping rank to talk to ppl. If there is something that is rock solid about this Organization is it's leadership. They are very capable, and can handle anything. What we as a group need to do is learn to funnel the requests on the way up so that by the time they reach our senior leadership it's only 5 msgs instead of 50.
Also, please show your fellow members the respect that they are do. In turn, respect is a two way street, and with that in mind, we should greet and show all newer members with the utmost respect.
Without each other this Div. would dissolve, and we'd all be looking for a new group. We are our own strength. Not any one person, but all of us together.
Please treat each other with the utmost respect at all times, and be especially on your guards on the server. Those servers are our bastion, our barricades, our temples for worship of the INS fps. We should act accordingly.
Both on the field and off.

”Respect yourself and others will respect you.” --Confucius

 

[PIMP DADDY SMURF]

Un4Gvn's words of wisdom brought to you by... iBUYPOWER, D-Link, Turtle Beach Gaming Headphones, and Verizon wireless. :thumbup:
Man you always hit the nail right on the head Un4Gvn, great great great thread reply man!

 

[Lightningcount]

Ok lets put it this way. NO ONE is to ever publicly ridicule or berate any member of our clan EVER. If you have a problem, as others have said, take it to private. If the problem can not be solved, come to an advisor. NEVER take it straight to a council unless all other avenues have been pursued.

That being said, if you have a problem with someone, either squash it or leave that person alone. Do not let it get drug out into the open because neither of you are mature enough to handle it in private when it first occurred. The longer you have a grudge against someone, the stronger it gets. If I see any of this in the servers, you can guarantee I will kick, or even ban, both parties involved to get you into vent to talk about the issue. Never let your personal problems with someone come over into our servers or into an open vent channel.