Time for a moderated opinion instead of Steam bashing...
I have to agree some admins are overzealous and tend to kick out of hand, especially for incidents which are clearly not aimed at anyone in particular. There needs to be a tighter control over decisions to appoint admins, and perhaps the institution of an "intent to incite" rule.
What is this "intent to incite" rule, and what is the rationale?
Well, we have the "grandma policy", in which says "don't say it if you wouldn't say it in front of your grandma". Which quite frankly, is out of hand, works like damn, hell, and bloody are often called up on ego even if directed in jest.
The "intent to incite" rule should be one which takes a moderated view of the intent of the person to incite a flamewar, so something like "f*** you bloody motherf***** c*** bit***" would obviously be "intent to incite". But something like "lucky bas****" would be taken more moderately as there is no direct intent.
Why "Intent to incite"?
The "I2" rule would allow us to target those who are clearly attempting to flame others, while giving leeway to those who just use words more liberally in what is clearly a non-offensive manner. The very point of this idea is to give the "offending" party the benefit of the doubt, which would make for a better game experience on the whole. After all, we expect them to be mature enough to moderate themselves.
My removing of my tag on some other servers because of bashing I've been getting is a testament to the public image of ego, and frankly, it's not a good one.
Instead of ignoring the problem, we must attempt to engage them in dialogue, such as this post I put on another notoriously flamy board: Gamefaqs.
Clearly, it's not so much unbased as it is blown out of proportion.
http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/genmessage.php?board=437678&topic=51776135
So let's go out there, and start engaging.
After all, it is M for mature.