i don't know what's wrong with you guys. spidEY made changed several settings the other day to lower ping and now my ping lowers constantly on all the servers. i never go higher than 20. sometimes i never go higher than 9 on a good day. in addition, i never spike anymore.
9!? really 9!? your computer must reside actually inside of the server!
I cranked up BM a few days ago, zero players on when I started. I invited a dozen or so people on my Friends list, and we had 8-v-8+ or so for a good hour with people coming and going, before I left. So it's not that people won't or don't like it any more.
It's still playable, although definitely the laggiest server I play on.
Anyway, nobody likes Valve Maps, LOL. I play it now because that's where all my pallies seem to be... jk, it's OK but I dislike a few of the maps...
There is no single reason for BM's demise; It is not because it is "old" or "Stale" what about 2fort?, it is not because of Skyrim (or as I call it Mount & Blade), it is not only because of ping, that is bad for some, less so for others. For me, and my ping is pretty bad there, it is all about where the people who I like to play with are. If they aren't on Mesa, then neither am I, if they are, then I am.
It is odd how server popularity comes and goes for some maps but not for others. I personally hate 2fort, but those maps are full most of the time?
In the end, if we want it to stay, we need to keep playing it, even if that means join when there is no one, and then bug your friends to come play.
Who knows, if it goes, it goes.