I'm sorry, but I have to disagree with you on this issue. The servers are there for one reason only, and that's so that people can play on them and "HAVE FUN!"
Now admittedly, if some heavy is standing in front of a resupply closet shooting off endless rounds of ammo just so he can get an achievement, that's not acceptable. On the flipside of that, me and another eGO member once met in the center of the map as heavies, got out our sandviches, and started eating them in front of each other (also known as a Sandvich Fight.) Did it accomplish anything? No. Did we have fun doing it? Yes... it was hilarious!
Being able to have friends that you can goof around with on servers is probably the most enjoyable thing that I can think of about this clan. I've been in several clans where it was the rule that "We won't have fun unless we're winning." What's the fun in that?!?!?!?
Basically, as long as you're not breaking the rules, you should be free to have fun on the eGO servers as you wish.
All love for you brother, but you should try and enjoy the servers for what they are. Not everyone is going to get on the servers for serious fragging. There are plenty of hardcore gaming servers out there, and eGO has plenty of those types of servers too.... Blackmesa, being a custom map w/ the ability to rape the crap out of the opposing team's spawn, isn't one of them. It's my favorite server because it is usually one of the most laid back map servers in eGO's library.
That's my 2 cents.